Sexual diversity
According to the documentary that our guest Dr. Courtney Helfrecht, provided about sexual diversity, AKA says that the work of the penis is to search for the children. I fully concur with him, but the confusion arises in mind, where he said that he is doing it five times a night searching or a child. I think AKA is wrong at that point because it only requires a single sperm to meet with the ova of a partner, then a child starts to develop. This means even a single-sex play can lead to fetus formation; hence a child, therefore, I strongly feel that doing it five times a night is for enjoyment.
On the other hand, Ngandu says that sex is work. I second him because a single ejaculation is regarded as a mile run. Remember running is a hard task; it entails both physical and mental concentration, meaning after sex, one will automatically get tired. But know the question behind Ngandu’s thought about sex, if a single ejaculation has several sperm cells, and a single sperm cell is enough for building a child, why do it three times a day if you claim that is not for pleasure. This means that you have sex when your partner is not on heat, so automatically, she won’t conceive even if you do it ten times a night.
In conjunction with the above discussion, they also talked about ways on how one can show love to his or her partner. Sex is their first priority, aka added working hard, physical proximity while Ngandu talked about women gifts such as jewelry or cloths and for the men’s, respect for demands and household authority, among others. In this part, I had no otherwise but to agree with their opinions since they make sense. According to my viewpoint, where Aka talked about hardworking and physical proximity, I would have put more emphasis on hard work and in which point of view. For instance, both parties (man and wife) have to come up with a plan on how they want to run their lifestyle, remember failing to plan means you are planning to fail. Having that in mind, they will all have a common goal to achieve.
Aka believes that when a wife is pregnant, you have to play sex twice a night up to her six months of pregnancy, then slow down to once a night. He says that sperm is essential to the development of a baby while still in her mother’s womb. My confusion arises in a situation where a pregnant mother plays sex with another man, not the biological father of an infant in the womb. I think his thought is only applicable where the father is the biological since her body will tolerate the DNA of the other partner hence leading to a decrease in risk development when it comes to child complication
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Besides, Ngandu was right when he says that both the mother and the child contributes to child development. My backup point to him is that there must be a mutual relationship when it comes to child development. A man has to release sperm, and a woman has to releases cervical fluid from the cervix regulated by estrogen hormone and progesterone hormone. The fluid helps in the nourishment of e sperm cells, protecting them as they travel through the virginal and cervix to fertilize an egg.
Rendering to the documentary, genetic incest is as follows, father-daughter sex and brother-sister marriage. This is highly discouraged, and it is regarded as a taboo. The general outcome of such an incident is a deformed or an insane child. But in other cases, cousin marriages are somehow allowed. I think the reason behind this is that the family relationship or the blood ties in the maternal side is not that strong; this means that you can get married to a cousin on your maternal side but on the father’s side, not regarded.