THE FACILITIVE CONDITIONS

THE FACILITIVE CONDITIONS

Carl Rogers recognized the tendency of humans’ self-actualization and a positive view of psychology that allows our desire to develop and engage in self-exploration of behaviors, feelings, and beliefs to empower and facilitate the client in developing process and able to current and future challenges. He also believes that to come up with the conditions for a change of the client, the therapist should be genuine and understanding. Carl identified the following terms core to enable the relationship of the client and the therapist to work.

EMPATHY

Empathy is the condition of the therapist to learn with sensitivity to the feelings and experiences of the client. Rogers knows that humans can resist change, but through working to understand life through another person’s perspectives. This means that we invite change in ourselves. For example, Carl Rogers talk about conditions on how you can approach a woman who you have never seen before, he says ‘firs question is can I be real in a relationship?” for this to happen one must create transparency, what you are experiencing inside is true to your wellness. The second question is, “will I find myself caring for this person?” this is through acceptance and praising or non-perspective relationship. (Carl,3:40-5:30min)a therapists understand the feelings of a client and never doubt what client experiences.

UNCONDITIONS POSITIVES REGARDS

Rogers believed that for the client to grow and learn their potentials, there must be vital that must be valued as an individual. The therapist must maintain a positive attitude to the client. The client must speak about their difficulties without fearing or being criticized.in part 3 of the video, ”you wanted to be seen perfect, even the inner feeling is not there? “Rogers said. (Roger,7:40-8:30) Gloria wants to be perfect, but her actual actions were not good. She doesn’t want her kid to see she is doing bad so she cannot feel guilty about it. Feel right about yourself. In part 4 of the counseling video,” Prove to have a significant relationship with the client is experiencing, “Carl said(Carl,3:02-4:11min).

CONGRUENCE

Congruence means genuine and real counselor. In this condition, give the client a chance to build a trusting relationship with a counselor to defeat negative attitudes. It is the balance of outward expression and inner experience. The client is build trust relationships and being honest when expressing themselves. In part 3 of the video,” Taking a chance to show who you are and be the person who you want to be, “Rogers said. Grolia wants to be honest with kids and being jealous of their dad. (Rogers,7:03-8:40) .Client feels valued by the warm approached by the therapist, and this makes the client comfortable to talk problems.

GENUINENESS

Being genuine is to open and honest to his or her feelings, dropping your facades and become transparent.in part 4 of the video, “I want you to give a great answer, that if I will be open enough to my children? “Gloria asked. Carl answered that the only person she should be honest to be herself and take the risk.(Carl,Gloria,1:10-4:03)

RESPECT

Respect is appreciated or prizes  someone’s behaviors with dignity .”I want to get particular no matter what, even if I have to lie, “Gloria said. She feels immature because she cannot push herself through that because she feels she is not mature enough.in part 5 of the video, Gloria even hates herself. She is uncomfortable with what she is doing.” Feel comfortable with what you are doing.”(Carl,Gloria1:20-5:16min)”she thinks that am devil, I want her to respect me and accept me, “Gloria said.” If she knows you, she will respect you, “Rogers answered. (Roger,3:20-4:11min)

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