Online dating

Online dating

Online dating is mainly a way of starting a romantic online relationship mainly by replying to someone else information for whom you have never met him or giving information about yourself to him. Since some centuries online dating has been a trend in most of the people especially those who can access the internet. The article wrote by Diana Falzone introduces us to the risk of online dating and how we can protect ourselves hence this paper asserts to analyze the article.

The articles introduce us in our today’s online dating where most people end up signing up to online dating site presuming to get love. The article focusses on Ingrid lyneas a forty years mother of three as our main character. Ingrid lyne is murdered and the author here is wondering whether online dating is safe at all. the purpose of this article is to educate and caution those who mainly engage in online dating. More specifically to those who are in search of love partners online through the internet for example the article introduces us with the lynes severed head and foot in a recycling bin and it is confirmed that lyne was brutally madder after paying a visit to Robert charton who was his online lover. Hence raising the concern on how one can protect himself when attempting to try online dating.

It is possible for one to protect himself once trying to carry out online dating in many ways. First it is a safety measure to carry out a background check on the person you are dating or about to check in order to have the right information in regarding whom to be dating. ”You should always do a background check on the person that you are dating.” Since at any time the online dating company is not liable for any misunderstood occurrence and does not guarantee anyone of any safety while doing any form of dating using their platform it is absolutely clear that a background check is the most convenient and wise move. Most of the dating sites have terms and conditions bearing the users from being able to raise any claim pertaining any claim arising from interacting with the other member of the site.” You are solely responsible for your interactions with………………public records”

In addition one may find it interesting in this article in a situation whereby most of the people are trying to point the figure at online dating as the main source of lynes death just by forgetting that charltons criminal background was not really enough evidence that he was the real threat to the lynes death. People should be able to think out of box and make the necessary assumptions and conclusion in order to come up with the necessary and congruent solutions. This can only happen if one may justify himself and proof on the other aspect of what if the two had met maybe for a planned coffee or anywhere else and the same bad thing happened? It is clear that lyne had no idea regarding john Roberts’s criminal history. ” they had apparently been dating for one or two mounts………tip-off that he is a deprived killer.”

To avoid all this misunderstanding and misfortunes, it’s better for any one being involved in an online dating to meet someone first maybe in a public place. Also just make sure to have had someone knowing your whereabouts and take time to figure things out maybe by not being easily convinced maybe to leave the planned venue for a different one. This will save you too much.” The classical advice is to meet someone first in a public place. Don’t go on your own. Tell someone where you are going……….or do anything else with that date at that time so you can get a better sense of that person”

The article does not clearly show how much lyne and john had familiarized in their dating period. Lyne might not have had enough information regarding Johnson and that could have let to the tragic fate she finally faced. For any online dating there must be an assumption of anything maybe weird happening in the mean un identified course of it ” I think capacity for deprived homicide would have been nearly impossible for anyone to detect without a complete psychological testing profile even then there would be no guarantee.”

I would encourage readers to carefully read and analyze this article on the bases of its importance, basically, it’s not bad for one to be involved in an online dating but it’s good for one to know the dangers behind it. This would mean that before anyone make the decision for making any sign up or login in any online dating platform, it’s good to be aware of any unforeseen dangers in it. This would save you a lot as you undergo the dating process.

To review, mainly for the onlookers of online companionship, it’s good for one to be careful before entering into any relationship and most importantly one should trace the historical background of the other partner whom they are about to make the relationship.