Discussion Forums (DF)
Discussion Forums (DF) require you to post your response to the questions first, then you will be able to see and respond to another student’s post, if required. Respond to one other student and address their posting. In your response explain why you agree or disagree with their post. Type at least one page (3 to 4 paragraphs) Read the following article posted on this discussion board, please address the any or all of the following questions: Do you see it more from the functionalist, symbolic interactionist, or conflict theorist perspective? How does the perspective best examine the concept of Valentine’s Day? You may use personal examples and observations. What does Valentine′s Day mean to you? The Sociology of Valentine′s Day It’s almost that time. Can you feel it? That ever present feeling of love in the air? I do every time I walk into any store and the pink hearts and pudgy cherubs with bows and arrows attack me (Am I alone in being afraid of that little guy trying to shoot me?). They started shortly after Christmas. And they’ll persist until February 14th. What’s Valentine’s Day all about anyway? And more importantly what does it mean to us? The functionalists would argue that all holidays are occasions to unify the group and bring people together (this of course has a particular meaning exclusive to this holiday…). Rituals like these allow us to celebrate the values we hold sacred and affirm our sense of who we are (our ‘we-ness’). Which values exactly does Valentine’s Day celebrate? Love. [unique_solution]Our culture’s version of romantic love is celebrated in Valentine’s Day cards and boxes of chocolate. Pay attention to commercials and advertisements and you’re likely to see the following variants on the following love themes: 1. True love can strike without prior interaction (“love at first sight”). 2. For each of us, there is only one other person who will inspire true love. 3. True love can overcome any obstacle. 4. Our beloved is (nearly) perfect. 5. We should follow our feelings; we should base our choice of partners on love rather than on other, more rational considerations. Heternormativity – Heteronormativity is the idea that there are two (and only two) complementary genders and that heterosexuality is not only the ‘normal’ sexual orientation but correct and characterizes most (all) people. Heteronormativity is embedded within society’s institutions and in this case, holidays. Discussion of Valentine’s Day presupposes a heterosexual relationship, thus reinforcing the idea that this is the correct type of relationship. The symbolic interactionists would point to Valentine’s Day sсrіpts which are culturally proscribed event schemas or outlines for how events unfold. We all know them and they set the stage for the holiday. The Valentine’s sсrіpt probably involves dinner, roses and chocolate. We all know what is expected and what to expect; and it is because of these cultural sсrіpts. Can you imagine a couple together for six months and one person in the relationship ignores Valentine’s Day? Not good for that person! And of course, the conflict theorists would explain the reliance on these cultural values is because they can be used to manipulate us into consumption. They are used exploitatively to sell us stuff as well as reinforce those in power’s definition of love that requires purchasing greeting cards, candy and jewelry.